Some partners see access to each other's phones as reassurance; others see private messages and personal devices as legitimate boundaries. Secretly checking a partner's phone is especially divisive.
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Some partners see access to each other's phones as reassurance; others see private messages and personal devices as legitimate boundaries. Secretly checking a partner's phone is especially divisive.
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